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Sunday, March 10, 2019

Everything You Need to Pack for Your Big Move to Japan | Packing List For Moving to Japan

So you got the job and you've booked your flight for Japan! Now all that's left is for you to pack your bags and say your goodbyes. Once you've finally come back down to earth you will begin to freak out about what you should pack and what you should leave at home. 
Having spent hall of your life in your home country it can be very difficult to decide what you need to bring versus what you want to bring. As humans were naturally get attached to our personal items. It becomes increasingly more and more difficult for us to let go things that we are used to waking up to, looking at, and using every single.
While everyone's needs and opinions are very much indeed different, I wanted to create a guide to help you decide what you should really bring with you to Japan. 
Because you will be moving to a new country you will have to consider the cultural differences such as the expectations for the way that you dress. You want to have everything that you need for immigration, work, or school so it is important that you pack any necessary documents as well as appropriate clothing for any events, outings, or dates that you may have within the first few months.
As a foreigner people understand that you're new to the country or that you're a tourist. They aren't expecting you to have 100 different outfits to mix and match everyday. It's okay to wear the same few things and live a minimalist lifestyle until you start working and can buy your own clothing and nicer furniture.  I know this is hard to do if you're an over thinker and a shopaholic like me but you will regret overpacking once you arrive at the airport and get slammed with $500 worth of overweight baggage fees and then attempt to painfully and awkwardly maneuver  them throughout the airports and onto trains all alone. 

Please keep in mind that this guide is for those of you who plan to start a new life in Japan and NOT those of you who are just studying abroad for a semester or going on vacation for a month.




Things to Keep in Mind Before You Pack Your Bags




  • You're going to Japan. A country that is full of fun, food, entertainment, and nature. You will either be a student or working a full-time job so not much is really needed.

  • If you are planning to live here permanently then you will make a lot of new purchases and will inevitably forget about the items you brought from your home country.

  • Japan is a first world country. You will be able to buy most of the items that you love from and need from home here in Japan upon arrival.

  • There are familiar brands available in Japan with just a slightly different smell, taste, or texture from food to toiletries.

  • There are import stores in every major city.

  • If you befriend with Japanese or Americans who are in the military they can give or sell you items that they purchased on the base for cheap.

  • If you are living alone you will find that your day to living expenses aren't much at all in comparison to America (in regards to your rent and electric bill.

  • Japanese men and women both dress very fashionably. You will almost never see someone who isn't homeless wearing clothing that looks cheap, in pajamas, loungewear or workout clothing in "inappropriate" settings.

  • Japanese people don't use deodorant, but there are options for you here such as deodorizing wipes, roll-on and aerosol spray cans. Remover you can get someone to buy it for you on the military base as well.

  • You can buy basic snacks, groceries, and toiletries from the dollar store or convenience store after you arrive.

  • You won't spend much time at home as you will want to travel, go sightseeing, take pictures, work, attend classes at school, date, party, and so much more. You will be busy outside most of the time so there is no need to bring a lot of entertainment from home.

  • Because you won't be at home much there is no need to bring  big or expensive furnishings,  games, movies, or books from home. 

  • You will inevitably change upon moving here. Your sense of style, your taste in food, and even your interests will change as you will be exposed to new things, different places and people.




What NOT to Bring to Japan

While these items might be useful they are all either a waste of luggage space, hazardous, "unfashionable", will expire/go bad by the time you arrive, are too heavy (will cause you to exceed the wight limit on your luggage), or illegal and thus can get you deported or in jail should you use it in public or someone decides to tell the police.


  • Glass
  • Fragile Items
  • Large bulky pieces of clothing and shoes
  • Alcohol 
  • Drinks 
  • Flammables & Combustible Items
  • Cookware
  • Pillow (unless its small and compact)
  • Desktop computer
  • TV
  • VHS or DVD Player
  • Pocket knife
  • Gun
  • Sword
  • Pepper spray
  • Large bottles and containers of Toiletries (body wash, soap, handsanitizer etc.)
  • Pornography of any kind (magazines, books, DVD's)
  • Questionable Items (Anything that might make it seem as though you are trying to sell drugs or partake in illegal work or activities outside of your designated visa should be left at home since you never know who's bag will get searched).
  • Meat, Fish, Dairy Products, and Plants 
  • Strong colognes and perfumes




GIFTS


There is no need to bring any gifts from home even if you are planning to meet your pen-pal, boyfriend, or homestay family. It is very unlikely that they have a gift for you and they aren't expecting you to bring them anything.
Your homestay family is already being compensated for hosting you, and they will more than likely spend as little money as possible to provide you with bedding and food so that they can maximize their profits (most people here are very frugal). Don't waste hundreds of dollars or use up your valuable luggage space on big bulky gifts for ungrateful and unsuspecting recipients. If you absolutely must bring something then keep in mind that most Japanese people only give small gifts of souvenir chocolates or crackers from the city or country that they came from.


  • Chocolates or Crackers from a tourist destination (preferably that has your city's name on the packaging)
  • Small compact items that are reusable (kitchen towel with your cities name on it and a nice design)
  • Small custom goodie bag of assorted candies



NOTE: 

While it is nice to decorate the packaging for them since you are the guest here it is unnecessary for you to have items professionally wrapped, in boxes or any expensive decorations. Your Japanese friends and "family" will literally just throw you what looks like a bag of Teddy Grahams without any special boxing or papers. Don't put so much effort into these gifts. They will be happy that you got them anything at all. You are not expected to or obligated to give anyone a gift even if they gave you one first. YOU are their guest this is THEIR country and you are new to it. They know that this extreme gifting culture is a "Japanese thing".
No one will be offended or insulted by your inability to bring a big fancy gift. They will appreciate that you thought of them and attempted to share your culture with them.






Luggage

Most airlines allow you to bring a total of 4 bags. That is 2 checked bags, 1 carry-on, and 1 personal bag such as a purse. If you are a man for the sake of bringing additional items without having to pay the price or trashing them at the airport you should buy and wear a man bag to the airport. Most Japanese men carry one everyday as most people here walk and ride their bikes everywhere every single day. It is inconvenient to rely on the small amount of pocket space that you have. You will want t
Consider investing in a name brand lightweight extra large suitcase that rolls on swivel wheels. What you don't want is luggage that is too small, cheap and flimsy that will break easily.



  • 2 Suitcases 
  • 1 Carry On Bag
  • 1  Large Shoulder Bag (Purse)
  • 2 Foldable Weekend Bags (these are great to have since you will make additional purchases as well as go on short trips during your stay in Japan).
  • 3 Reusable Shopping Bags (these exist in Japan but they aren't as big and colourful as American bags).





CLOTHING

Your goal is to pack only what you need. You want to save space for your personal items and bulky electronics. Japan sells clothing for people of all sizes but similarly to America the bigger you are the smaller the selection will be. You can have items custom made or shipped to you from overseas. There are plus-size stores available online as well as plus-size clothing sections in some stores. Remember that you will lose weight upon moving here as you will be more active, eating less and potentially consuming healthier foods overall.
You sense of fashion will change as you will want to assimilate and "look Japanese" by wearing whatever the latest trends are here in Japan.
As a whole Japanese people are very "fashion-conscious" so to speak, Both men and women spend a ton of time and money getting ready every morning and preparing their skin and clothing for the next day. 
If you can afford it you you should definitely bring any expensive designer clothing that you may own along with you to Japan. People will notice and compliment you on it.

This is a general guide for clothing. If you are very tall, obese, or coming to Japan for work then you should bring more clothing and shoes particularly professional suits and dresses as well as comfortable shoes with a wide width.Once again there are stores that cater to larger sizes, but you don't want to be running around trying to find a 3x dress shirt or size 10 wide women's shoes within the first month of being here.Don't go crazy with packing! Just a few of each item and you will have more than enough.

If this list seems to have more items than you were planning on packing then by all means don't take everything I listed here this is just a rough guide and reference for those who tend to freakout and overpack out of fear of missing or forgetting something that was needed. If you think you can manage with just one pair of gym shoes then just pack one instead of two. No hard feelings!


Advice for Women

Japanese women generally wear very modest loose fitting and long clothing. You will occasional see women dressed in less modest more skimpy outfits but these women are usually high school and college students, escorts, hosts or just "Japanese passing" (not even Japanese to begin with).
As a foreign woman you will unfortunately be held to a higher standard as you are already being fetishized and objectified.  It is best to try your best to assimilate not just for the sake of respecting the country that you are living in but to avoid most (keyword being most) unwanted situations with perverts and creeps.

Advice for Men

Japanese men dress in a more relaxed way than women, but they typically style themselves in a much more fashionable way than American men. Business casual clothing is often worn by men during the weekends. Younger men tend to wear a polished hip-hop street look (reminds me of the Bratz Boyz dolls). A common outfit worn by men is the standard plain white t-shirt paired with a blazer and a pair of denim jeans sneakers.
If you aren't used to putting a lot of effort into your skin, hair, nails, and clothing then you will be in for a surprise upon moving to Japan. Not looking well groomed, being unshaven and underdressed is not only a turn off to the ladies, but it makes you look sloppy, dirty and unprofessional.



Outerwear


  • 1 Lightweight Down Jacket
  • 1 Windbreaker/ Light weight Spring & Summer Jacket
  • 1 Cozy Hoodie
  • 1 Set of Cold Weather Accessories (Hat, Scarf, Gloves)
  • 1 Travel Sized Umbrella


Shoes


  • 2 Pairs of Comfortable Athletic Slip Resistant Running Shoes
  • 1 Pair of Foldable Flats (women)
  • 1 Pair of Chunky Heels (women)
  • 1 Pair of Comfortable Dress shoes (men)
  • 1 Pair of Slip Resistant and Water Proof Boots 



Accessories


  • 1 Wallet
  • 1 Purse/Bag (men get over it and start wearing a man bag you'll need it trust me)
  • 1 Watch
  • 3 Pairs of Modest earrings (women
  • 1 Modest necklace (women)
  • 2 Ties (men)

Casual Clothing


  • 2-3 Plain Colored t-shirts
  • 2 Plain Long Sleeve T-shirts
  • 3 Pairs of Jeans
  • 2 Casual Dresses
  • 2 Business Casual Tops (men)
  • 2 Blazers

Underwear


  • 7 Pairs (1 pack) of Panties/Underwear
  • 5 Bras
  • 4 Camisoles/tanktops

Loungewear


  • 2 Pairs of Pajamas (thin top with short sleeves and thin pants/thick top with long sleeves and thick pants)
  • 2 Pairs of Cozy Socks
  • 1 Pair of House Shoes

Business Clothing


  • 2 Blouses (women)
  • 2 Dress shorts (men)
  • 2 Cardigans
  • 2 Skirts (women)
  • 2 Pairs of Dress Pants
  • 1 Dress (women)
  • 1 Suit (men)

Other 


  • Compact comforter 
  • Small Fleece Blanket
  • Travel Sized Pillow
  • 1 towel Set 
  • 2 Garbage bags
  • Scissors and Tape
  • Ziplock bags 
  • 1 small compact first-aid kit 




SEASONINGS & SNACKS 


1 small bag of your favorite snacks from your home country is all that you should bring. You can purchase your items online and have them sent here to Japan or you can ask your friends and family to send you care packages in the future.
The reality is that you're going to have to get used to eating different foods and your tastebuds will change overtime inevitably anyway. Don't waste too much of your valuable space by filling up your suitcase with junk food that will be eaten gone and forgotten within days.
Obviously everyone has different tastes in food so below is just an example of my favorite items to bring back from home that are either impossible or very difficult or expensive to buy, and find here in Japan. 


  • Seasoned Salt
  • Lemon Pepper
  • Salt (Japanese sizes are much smaller and more expensive)
  • Pepper (Japanese sizes are much smaller and more expensive)
  • Louisiana Fish Fry Seasoning
  • Spicy Flavored Snacks (Such as Cheetos Flamin Hots or Jay's Hot Chips)
  • Peanut butter Snacks (Such as Reese's or cookies)
  • Breakfast Cereal (Japanese cereal is very expensive and there aren't as many good flavors)
  • Popcorn (It's very expensive here and butter flavor is apparently an American thing)
  • Pizza Seasoning
  • Steak Seasoning
  • Curry Powder
  • Funyuns
  • Sun Chips
  • Louisiana Hot Sauce


ELECTRONICS & ENTERTAINMENT 

Bring a few of your favourite books and magazines to read when you're bored during your flight, at the airport, train station, terminal, at a hotel, or relaxing at home before school or work starts.
Be sure to only pack items that are light! A few thick magazines or hard cover books can easily make your luggage exceed the weight limit at the airport. I would highly recommend that you upgrade to the latest phone available at the time, with the largest amount of built in memory, and an international phone plan that provides coverage in Japan. If you have an international plan you won't have to rely on getting pocket wifi or worry about the battery dying while you're out (it's a hassle having to keep to batteries charged). While the plan may be a little pricey it is worth every penny and it is cheaper than paying a regular monthly phone bill plus the additional bill for wifi. I personally didn't get a pocket wifi device until I had already lived in Japan for over a year and I survived off of just using my T-mobile One international plan. 

  • 2 10,000 mAH Spare  Rechargeable Battery Packs 
  • A compact laptop that is thin and light weight
  • Spare chargers for Your Devices
  • Earbuds or Head Phones 
  • 1 Book
  • 1 Magazine
  • Digital Camera 
  • Tablet
  • Cellphone
  • Handheld Gaming Device with Games (Optional)
  • Digital Music Subscription


NOTE: 

Most international plans are only unlimited text and data this does NOT include calls. If you need to call your family at home you should consider downloading TextFree (uses wifi or data and is 100% free you just have to watch ads for minutes or you can buy them if you're in a rush), SKYPE, LINE, Facebook Messenger, or if the two of you have iPhones then you can use FaceTime to chat or even video call instead. Be sure to ask your mobile service  provider about these costs and to ensure that you will have coverage.
I personally made the mistake of using an older phone and buying a sim card and a plan for it not knowing that it wouldn't work once I actually arrived in Japan (it did work in America). I went 3 weeks without a cellphone or wifi and had a panic attack at the airport after getting lost, not being able to find my luggage, unable to translate what I wanted to say because I didn't have a phone to do that with, my dictionaries were in my suitcase. My arranged taxi had been waiting for over an hour possibly 2 hours by the time I had finally made it and it was extremely embarrassing as I was a hot and sweaty mess.





PERSONAL ITEMS

Being in a new country can be scary especially when you won't return home for a while if not ever. It is very important that you have comfort items with you beyond just snacks that will get eaten and used up. Whether it be a knick knack or a stuffed animal you need things that will make you feel more at home and not as though you are in prison. Your mental health is extremely important and you simply can't put a price tag on it. You may not have space to bring everything that you love so just a handful of items that can fit into your luggage or carry-on will have to due for now. You can always box up your favorite items and have someone send them to you at a later date.


  • Favorite Figurines & Plushies
  • Journal & Notebook
  • Bible and Religious Reading Materials (if you're religious)
  • Pens & Paper
  • Favorite Cards & Letters 
  • Coloringbook with Crayons & Coloring Pencils
  • Planner (Most Japanese people carry an old fashioned planner instead of using their phone)
  • Stressball 






IMPORTANT DOCUMENTS

You never know what you might need, when you'll need it, or why so it best to be prepared. If you are planning on moving him permanently or longterm it would be in your best interest to bring all of your confidential personal items with you.


  • State Identification or Drivers License
  • Birth certificate
  • Social Security Card
  • Passport Copy 
  • Passport
  • Degree's, Diplomas, and Certificates
  • All of your credit and debit cards 
  • Bank account information
  • Emergency Contacts (Full Names, Numbers and Addresses)
  • Prescriptions for medications and eyewear



Shipping Options

It is an expensive and bad idea to have seasonal items shipped back and forth between your home country and Japan. You will have limited storage space here for clothing and unless you're rich it isn't worth the money to ship large boxes of clothing back and forth throughout the year. You will find new brands and items that you like here just as much as you love your wardrobe from back at home.
There are a few third party websites that offer shipping services for people around the world. I won't name any here since I am not being sponsored and I haven't had the best experience with the company that I almost used once, but a quick Google search will bring up companies that offer to store your items at their warehouse and send them directly to you in Japan allegedly at a slightly discounted rate.
Like most people you will only play a handful of games and wear a handful of your favorite clothing so don't waste time or money packing and shipping boxes back and forth. Anything you need can be found here in Japan or purchased online from either a Japanese or American retailer.


Stores to Shop & Eat at Upon Arrival 

If you forget something or need something then these are the places that you'll want to look for. The good news is that these stores and restaurants are all located in every major city and there are often several locations with different products sizes, styles, and flavors so be sure to try out more than one location. Some of them are open as late as 10:00pm or until midnight.
The restaurants listed below are all chain restaurants that are affordable (with the exception of the cafes) with price ranges from $1.00-$20 per an item or meal.


Clothing, Furniture, Toiletries, Homegoods & Groceries

  • DAISO (High Quality Japanese Dollar Store Enough Said)
  • UNIQLO (Plus -Size Clothing, Affordable Prices for All Sizes)
  • 7-Eleven (ATM that accepts foreign cards, Cheapest Curry, Discounted Bentos & Onigiri)
  • AEON (Affordable Groceries)
  • Rakuten (Affordable Japanese Online Store Similar to Walmart & Amazon)
  • Amazon Japan (Import Items & Furniture) 
  • Nitori (Japanese furniture and Decor)
  • Don Quijote (Japanese Version of Walmart Meets Burlington without the coats)
  • Forever 21 (Familiar Brands With Affordable & Fashionable Clothing)
  • H&M (Familiar Brands With Affordable & Fashionable Clothing)
  • BIC Camera (Electronics store similar to Best Buy)
  • EDION (Electronics store similar to Best Buy)



Restaurants & Cafes

  • Matsuya (Japanese fast-food beef and pork bowls)
  • Yoshinoya (Japanese fast-food beef and pork bowls)
  • Kitchen Origin (Japanese bento shop)
  • Ippudo (Fast food ramen and karaage) 
  • Mc Donald's (American fast-food) 
  • Burger King (American fast-food) 
  • Taco Bell (American fast-food)
  • Wendy's/First Kitchen (American fast-food)
  • Denny's (American familyrestaurant that serves mostly Japanese food) 
  • CoCo ICHIBANYA (Japanese fast-food curry) 
  • Saizeria (Japanese family restaurant)
  • Starbucks (American Cafe)
  • Ueshima Coffee (Japanese Cafe)
  • Ootoya (Japanese family restaurant)



Additional Services to Use in Japan

Here is a list of companies that I have personally used and would highly recommend to other foreigners that plan to move to Japan.

The Best Taxi Service in Japan


The Best Shipping Service in Japan



The Best Airport to Arrive in Japan at


The Best Pocket Wifi

The Best Website to Book Your Flight With

The Best Company to Fly With

IMPORTANT
Don't forget your wallet, cash, credit card, passport, passport copy, drivers license or state ID! 
You always want to be prepare in the unfortunate event of an emergency situation. Your passport is needed to board your flight and will be needed on a regular basis throughout your stay in Japan.
You won't always be able to use your card or your cash so it is good to have both as you will never know what forms of payment or currency is acceptable during your journey to Japan.

There are usually police boxes (mini police station offices that are upon to the public) that are located near schools, parks, and train stations that are located at busy intersections. They can help you find you destination or protect you from danger should you come across a creep or a threatening individual. 

Most convenience stores are open 24/7 even on holidays so if you are ever lost or need help you can ask for it from one of the employees or connect to the free wifi there to search for help or make a phone call. 
Most of these conveniences store have a small seating area with outlets for charging devices as well as clean public restrooms. There is no need to make a purchase but it is best to do so if you are a frequent patron or plan to stay for a long time it is nice to make a small purchase to avoid abusing their kinds (human decency/basic manners).





Thank you for reading! If you have any tips that you'd like to share with other readers, or if you have a question that wasn't answered then please leave a comment here.


Please have a safe flight, and I hope you enjoy your new life in Japan!





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Sunday, March 3, 2019

10 LIES THAT YOU BELIEVE ABOUT JAPAN

With the increase of social media usage and coverage people are coming more and more interested in Japan thanks to manga, anime, J-pop, J-fashion, travel channels and of course porn. With so much weird and crazy stuff being seen and shown to us everyday about Japan, it is natural for people to have misunderstandings about it's culture and people. 

It is easy to go to YouTube or watch the news and come to the conclusion that Japanese people are sexless robots who marry vocaloids, live in dwarf homes, eat 1 piece of sushi, and a table spoon of rice for every meal but this is simply not true! 

It goes both ways as most Japanese people think that all foreigners are rude, fat, tall, lazy, hamburger enthusiast, and shoot people with AK47's for fun.

If you have time and hate to read then you can watch the video for this post on YouTube as well.




10 LIES THAT YOU BELIEVE ABOUT JAPAN

YOU KNOW NOTHING FOOL!!!


1.) Japanese salary men are hard workers.

They're really not... They are often times socially obligated to stay at work until they're senpai and managers leave in order to appear as hard workers and to show their dedication to their "work fam". Most of these salarymen only work from 9:00am-6:00pm and they have a 1 hour lunch break. They are typically given the freedom to use their phones and computers (although like any work place its supposed to be for work and their usage shouldn't interfere with getting stuff done on time). After 6:00pm most of them are just browsing their social apps and liking pictures and watching videos. They will commonly play around at their desks, work on stuff slowly, or even play in the bathroom to kill the time until their boss is ready to go.
They will often times be invited to hang out with their boss and coworkers. They can usually say no and some of them do. However it is difficult to reject these kinds of invites as it will make you look as though you aren't a team player.
If most men worked such ridiculous hours there wouldn't be a rush hour until midnight but if you lived here you'd see a steady flow or salarymen and career women from about 5:30pm-8:00pm and 7:30am-9:30am every weekday.
So it's a partial lie. Yes they're at work sometimes for ridiculous hours but they're not actually physically working and definitely not doing anything hard or tedious while they're there but of course nobody wants to be trapped at their job all day.

2.) Japanese people don’t like sex.

They absolutely love sex (especially men)! However a lot of women seem to think that men don't. There's a disconnect somewhere as the biggest complaint men have about their women here is that their partner withholds sex (particularly after getting married and having kids). 

Also casual sex is not as commonly done here in comparison to Europe and America. People work long hours so their simply isn't the time or money to have or pay for it.
Couples don't normally have sex early on in a relationship and casually having a fling, while it does happen here, it is not something that most women are willing to do unless they're a gaijin hunter and trying to please their foreign boyfriend (because they think this normal in America which it is not).
They love sex but it's hard to find the time, space and money for it. Prostitutes exist here and it's a big business and industry just like porn here is.
Women revery materialistic (even more so than in America) so if you didn't graduate from a prestigious university, you don't have a good career, and you're not fashionable or very attractive most women will have no interest in dating you. It's hard to have sex when you work all day, and you don't have all of the above stuff.
Not to mention a lot of young people live with their parents until they get married because they can easily save money by cutting back on the majority of their bills since their mothers will clean and cook for them and their fathers will pay the bills for the house etc. asking for a very small contribution if not anything at all from their kids.

Times have changed here just like they have in the U.S. People are marrying later on in life to focus on finishing school, traveling the world, and starting their careers  before making permanent decisions such as starting a family.
Japan is over populated. Their isn't enough space here on this little island for everyone to even have a small house. A reduction in it's population isn't going to be all that bad in the distant future but of course in the meantime this is problematic for running businesses and the economy etc.
Anyway my point is that people do like sex and are having children but not as early and as frequently as Americans do. I'm sure this all contributes to the significantly lower number of single parent households and  STD cases as well...


3.) Japanese people don’t like black people.

While it is true that most Japanese people (just like any other race of people) generally prefer white people over black people there is not a huge dislike or hate for people simply because they have dark complexions etc.. As long as you are visually attractive here people will like you just as much if not more than your white counterparts.

Everyone has their own taste in men and women. Attractive is attractive. Most people here don't have a real racial preference but they haven't seen or met enough black people to form a real opinion of them. Most of the black people here are Africans who are middle aged and purposefully poke fun at themselves at the expense of their race in exchange for money (no shade...). When people think of black people they think of the African touts who harass them in major cities, or they think of the comedians from TV whereas most of the white people in the media here are actors in commercials or models who are displayed as being sexy beautiful people with light colored eyes and hair. People always want what they don't have and find whatever is most rare within their race to be the standard of beauty. For example, small noses, light skin, colored eyes, long hair, and lose curl patterns are all sought after in the black community. Japan is no different! Big eyes, white skin, light colored eyes and hair, curvaceous bodies, and tall men are seen as beautiful here.

You will be judged on an individual basis so don't worry! I am black myself and while my skin may be lighter than most, I am still seen as a black woman here and I still have large features. I am constantly complimented on my complexion and lips. I look "exotic" as they say and I am constantly compared to Rihanna (whom I look nothing like).

4.) You have to bring a gift for everyone.
Nobody is expecting you to bring a gift from your home country, but it is a nice gesture if you do choose to do so. Only your homestay or a pen-pal should be getting a foreign goodie from you NOT everyone that you interact with for the first time. They know that this is a "Japanese thing" so it's not expected of you just like they aren't offended by you eating ramen with a fork haha.

Most Japanese people just buy green tea Kit-Kats or pocky when they visit foreign countries to meet their friends and when they bring gifts from travel within Asia or even Japan they simply buy cookies, crackers, or small chocolate candies.
Don't over think your gifts! Something small and simple (preferably that's edible) is all you need to buy.
It shouldn't be big, bulky, lavish or expensive. If it is, you'll make them feel obligated to buy you something like that which is kinda rude.


5.) Most Japanese people can’t speak English.

Most of them can both speak and write some basic English but they're really shy and humble about it. This is mostly because unlike Europeans and other Asians, they tend to not be native fluent English speakers thus they will downplay their English abilities.


6.) You need to be fluent in Japanese in order to work or attend a Japanese university.

You most certainly do not. People here will assume that you can't speak Japanese and will accommodate you (even if you can). I am still not a pro at Japanese. I am still studying and I am not confident enough to consider myself as fluent, but I now know enough to get by. I came to Japan with no knowledge of anything. I couldn't even read and write hiragana and katakana. I didn't know basic words or even how to count in Japanese. I learned a lot from living here, making friends, working, dating and interacting with staff at stores. 


Don't stress out over your language skills. All of the major Japanese colleges here offer 4 year courses in English and there are American and European schools that have campuses her win Japan that are entirely in English.

You don't need to speak Japanese to work in Japan. You can become an English teacher in Japan even if you're not a native English speaker. You can do other jobs in Japan such as IT, customer service, restaurant work etc. as well. Of course your options are limited but you will learn Japanese overtime as long as you make an effort to study and avoid being in the "gaijin bubble".


7.) Japanese portions are small.

While the meat portion is noticeably smaller in most circumstances the addition of larger portions of soup, rice, tea, and random vegetables and fruit will not only make you feel satisfied or full but it is much healthier for you than a large meat portion. You won't feel like you're being put on a diet or starving to death here after eating a normal Japanese style meal. I have never left a restaurant or purchased a bento and felt hungry (and I am a greedy pig at heart).

8.) The cost of living in Japan (groceries, utilities, rent) is very expensive.


Japan is very cheap in comparison to America especially if you live alone and don't have any children. Housing is not only more affordable, but you will get a better location too. The proximity of your home to public transit, shopping, work, tourist destinations etc. is unmatched. As for groceries, as long as you're not still cooking foreign meals such as American or European dishes, or eating large amounts of fresh fruits then you will find that food isn't all that expensive. You can still eat healthy of course but you should consider buying items that aren't being imported and that goes for fruits & nuts too not just American junk food!
Your utilities are very cheap in comparison to the U.S since you will have a much smaller space there isn't central heating, having guests or parties not really a thing here, and you'll be at work or school most of the day. My bills are never more than about $100 USD total but they're general $4-$60 USD. Most apartments here offer some free utilities such as water & gas or they will cover your internet & cable costs.


9.) Japanese men don’t like foreign women.

You're right they don't like foreign women. They love them! Most men here dream and fantasize (*cough cough* and fetishize) about being with a foreign woman. They are seen as significantly more attractive not just physically but emotionally. One of the biggest reoccurring complaints that men have about Japanese women is that they are childish, easily angered, and passive. On the other side they also complain that they all have the same body type and make bad sexual partners.  I am not agreeing with this statement nor am I disagreeing with it. I am simply telling you what my friends and dates have told me.

10.) You can’t buy plus-size clothing in Japan.

Obviously the smaller you are and the less you weigh the easier it will be for you to go shopping here both in store and online. However don't be fooled! There are tons of overweight and obese men and women here. Japanese people aren't genetically thin but they don't eat as much meet, they drink more water and tea and they do light exercise everyday by walking, running and riding their bikes everywhere everyday. 
Anyway you can buy plus size clothing here are speciality stores just like you can in America. If you are above a size 16 in America you also can't shop at most "normal" clothing stores. Japan is no different. You options will be limited, but I don't see it as being much different besides the fact that plus size here starts at a much lower size about a U.S size 8-10 (in my opinion). Again if you are over a size 10 you will have difficulty finding clothing in a regular store (that's not western such as F21) just like a size 18 woman would have trouble finding clothing in an American clothing store that isn't marketed/aimed towards plus-size women. You will have to shop at stores that cater to larger women here too! There aren't many (same as America) I'd say theres less than 10 well known stores here but you can always find small sections with plus-size clothing, order special sizes online, or buy clothing from overseas. You will inevitably lose weight here because you will be forced to exercise everyday and you may find that you're eating here less often for the fun of it and more out of necessity. I personally loss a lot of weight within my first year of being here before I even started to diet.


Have any more lies that you'd like to add to this list? Please feel free to leave a comment down below and help out another foreigner who is planning to live abroad.  I will be making a separate post with some more lies that are commonly believed. 



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