Are Foreigners REALLY Easy or Are Japanese People Lying A$$ H*es? (Video Comments)

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We normally focus on yellow fever and white (and nowadays even black) people drooling over Asian pu$$y and dick but we NEVER talk about the sick and cruel manipulative and R*PEY things that Asians do to trick foreigners into having sex getting pregnant or getting married to them. In foreigners defense (while I DO NOT support fetishes of any kind) at least even the creepy white black and hispanic people that have a fetish for Asians 99% of the time want a serious relationship with one whereas you have to search through a cesspool of Asian players and wh*res to find someone who is genuine and not lying to you about what they really want (usually sex or free English lessons). Asians would be in tears if they went to America and we told them we just want to have sex with someone who has a small dick or a prepubescent body or bragged about having a friend that plans trips to Hawaii or throws Asian parties at his house to meet easy girls/guys that are Japanese. Imagine if we told stories about the men and women we met in Japan that were willing to do anything to make us their girlfriend/boyfriend.

The stereotype in East Asia (this includes Japan, South Korea, and China) is that foreigners in general are “easy”. I have said this before. Asian men (men born and raised in Asia) think that it is okay to lie to foreigners about their relationship status and their intentions in talking to you AND that it is okay to bluntly ask you sexual questions or directly ask for sex.

I cannot tell you how many Asian men in Japan (of all 3 nationalities I mentioned above) that I have dated or befriended that have openly and even jokingly (offensively) told me about how easy the girls abroad are or about how they have a friend who basically throws sex parties to cheat on their girlfriend/wife.

Japanese (Asian) women also do the same thing. They believe that foreign men require non-stop sex in order to date them and will use that as an excuse to not be serious but at the same time will gladly lead foreign men on by pretending to be interested while talking to and f*cking several other men for fun, English practice, and a bucket list experiment.

Honestly I find that the Asians who say this are the ones who are easy. Their eyes light up the moment they see a foreigner (no matter how ugly they are) especially if they are blonde and/or have blue eyes. They will degrade themselves, apologize for their small dick size, small eyes and everything else. They will desperately write about how they dream of marrying a foreigner or about how they want to live in San Francisco, New York, or Hawaii and don’t like their own race yet WE (Americans/foreigners) are branded as being pr*miscuous and easy.

How someone dresses is NOT an excuse to violate, harass, abuse, lie to, or insult them. Imagine if Americans treated Asian women in kimonos like pr*stitutes because their idea of a geisha is a sex worker which despite the media trying to cover that side of it a lot of them were.Japanese people would be offended. They also don’t like being branded as weak, bad with sex,or submissive yet have no problem slapping labels on foreigners.

The real hoe here is YOU! If you go around lying to people about your intentions then of course you will get what you want. That would be like me telling every Japanese man over 33 that I date that I’m a virgin and I want to be his girlfriend and get married soon. I let all of these desperate Japanese men treat me like their wife (go on dates, have sex with me, and buy me gifts, travel together) then I go back and tell my friends behind his back how Asian men LOVE to be sugar daddies…. Well I misled everyone and made them feel like they were my first and that I was seeing them exclusively. They spent money on me because they thought it was real love but I just wanted gifts, sex, and experiences. I went after vulnerable men looking for wives that wanted to settle down KNOWING that I didn’t want to marry an Asian man but wanted a black American. Who is the real loser here? Me right? Okay, they are literally doing this to us. Asians clown foreigners by taking advantage of their openness about their mental health, desire for love and romance and ABUSE THE SH*T OUT OF US then go and tell everyone that they know how they should talk to foreigners if they want to avoid paying the $300 h*okers in the red light district that don’t even have tits. 

Likewise Asian women want a half white baby and will drop their panties for white tourists that are short and balding and then come crying to me when they find out that he is playing them and has a fetish for Asian women (possibly has a relationship back in his home country). I have had several Asian friends (Chinese and Japanese) go through this with white men. They are so thirsty for white dick and for being a wife and mom that they will do ANYTHING to be with a foreign man. Likewise Japanese men do the same thing.

Most of the foreign girls in Japan want a REAL relationship that leads to marriage and most of the foreign men here do too. We are romantic and because YOU as the Japanese person LIED to us and implied or directly told us that it was exclusive we were willing to say and do things that we otherwise would not have. Ghosting is bad enough but flat out telling lies and date r*ping people to get what you want is cruel and sick. Y'all are the TRUE hoes out here....

Don't take my word for it! There are tons of forums of foreign men and women in Japan asking for advice (look at the comments on my channel on my videos about fuckboys and ghosting) about who they think is their Japanese ex or partner. I get emails and dm's EVERY SINGLE DAY from innocent men and women (foreigners) asking me for help with their relationship that never existed because they didn't see any of the red flags that I did/do. 

We don't want to sleep around with you losers! We genuinely wanted a REAL relationship and you exploited us for being loving and caring and used the excuse that we dress in a way that is sexier than your own country's people to justify being liars and abusive. These are the same men who drug and intoxicate women because they are too pu$$y to ask for sex or earn it and the same women who judge foreign women for dressing as they please and claim that they can't keep up with the sexual demands of a foreigner but have to be asked to get off of their knees when they see a tall and muscular foreigner in the room. Your country is known for p*rn, m*lesters, and borderline p*dophillia so by that standard should foreigners recommend going to Japan to harm Japanese women? 

You would be VERY insulted if we made statements about Japanese girls like that. Nobody likes to be used or lied to... It is easy to get what you want when you misrepresent yourself and LIE about how you got it too. Like I said, if I go around telling men that are looking for marriage that I want a husband and let him ball out on me then clown him to my friends for being so generous with his wallet and curb him and break his heart, I couldn't say that Asian men are desperate for love. I set him up and misled him. He did "wifey" things for me because he thought I was going to marry him. He wouldn't have done that if I told him I just wanted a sugar daddy or a fling. Likewise foreign men and women (who are not sex tourist like you guys) would NOT sleep around with you if you told them them the truth!

Most of y'all suck in bed and don't even look that good to begin with so humble yourselves. Ought to be glad anyone gave you a chance to begin with. Now when you are 40 plus and on the verge of dying alone or when it happens to your kids I hope you remember that you reap what you sow. You play people, manipulate them and insult their culture and laugh about their vulnerability. The same thing will curse you and yours. I said WTF I said. PERIOD!

20 Types of Japanese Guys You DON'T Want to Date

 Dating in Japan can be fun, crazy, and interesting. There are so many things to get used to and sometimes it can be hard to tell the difference between a general cultural difference and a personality trait. While there are millions of handsome and charming Japanese men ti date and marry in Japan there are also tons of men that you will want to avoid like the plague. Everyone looks for different things in a relationship. If you are looking for someone to be faithful to you and to create a family with then these guys will probably break your heart, waste your time, and be a total disappointment. Here's my list of 20 guys that I'd personally like to avoid ever dating again (and I think you would too).

You can watch my YouTube video on this topic here... 

20 Types of Japanese Guys you DON'T Want to Dare

1. The Bucket Lister

This man is only dating you to check you off of his list of things to do before he dies. He simply wants to experience having sex with a foreigner so that he can tell his friends that he smashed a black chick or a blonde girl. 

2. The Gold Digger/ Fame Whore

This guy has no interest in you. He either wants to use you for money or for fame (or both). He is simply using you to gain status as a mini-celebrity to fame. He wants to be followed by you, tagged in pictures, and seen in videos with you so that he can hopefully gain his own following and start his own channel. He will lead you on until he either establishes his own fan base or has gotten enough gifts and money from you to either sustain the lifestyle that he wants or to move on to his next victim.

3. The Gaijin Expert

This guy thinks he knows you so well and has you all figured out because he has a history of dating people like you. He thinks he knows you already because he has already had sex with 5 white American girls so clearly you don't like sushi and love sex. While his intentions can be good at times this guy probably has a fetish and can be rather rude,degrading or abusive. His assumptions and know-it-all attitude towards you is a total turn off especially since you do happen to like the things that his ex girlfriend didn't and your personality isn't as loud or open as her's either despite him insisting that something must be wrong with you since you aren't the loud, crazy, fin partying American type like the women before you. 

4. The Depression Sex Addict

This loser uses his fake mental health diagnosis as an excuse to get women to sleep with him. He claims to just need a hug or sex and has probably used that exact line on all of his other victims too. He'll either stay in touch with you for easy and free sex or ghost you once he has gotten his daily dosage for medicine from you.

5. The Perfect Player

He has you all figured out. He knows that foreign women love romantic guys and need their "good morning" and "goodnight" text messages. He seems like Prince Charming but really he is treating countless other girls the same way as you at the same time. He's so romantic and sweet that you'd never suspect that he is capable of being unfaithful to you, but that's exactly what he is...unfaithful and deceitful. 

6. The American Dreamer

He has convinced you that he loves your home country so much that and cannot stand Japan so much that he wants to move with you to America to raise your family and live a life that doesn't involve strip clubs and heavy drinking after work. He tells you that he hates Japanese women and politics and shares all of your beliefs. He can't stand the work culture here and he hates how closed minded and racist or homophobic Japanese people. While you might think that this guy really shares your feelings towards Japan (and he might even be telling you the truth) he is only saying this so that he can get visa status with ease in the U.S. Once he gets what he wants he will enjoy his new life in Japan more than he does his relationship with you. He is probably going to cheat on you and live out his fetish of chasing hot foreign girls down on the beaches of California or finally having that threesome that he always wanted. He doesn't love you, but he loves your citizenship or race and he wants an easy ticket there.

7. The Family Man

This man is in a rush to have a family. It can be because he is older and a bachelor or a man that has a fetish. He might not even really intend to marry you but wants to show off to his friends, coworkers, or family that he can pull off a successful nanpa, speak English, or pull a hot foreign woman. He knows he isn't the ideal beauty standard and is moving too quickly in the relationship out of fear of losing you. While he might seem like a good man he doesn't really love you he just loves the idea of saying that he finally got married or has started a family. His goal could be to make his parents happy or to have a mixed race baby. Despite barely knowing you he already claims to be so in love with you and knows that you're the one. It can be flattering at first until you realize that he would say the same thing to another girl tomorrow should you cancel the Christmas Dinner date that he planned or break up with him.

8. The Sex Based Tour Guide

He simply travels for sex or he plays tour guide to locals that visit his city in the hopes of sleeping wit them. He might pretend to be your boyfriend or act as though he is in love with you but really he says and does the same thing for any cute foreign girl he meets. He has a girlfriend from his business trip in the Philippines and another girlfriend from his study abroad in England. He might be fun and romantic but his intentions aren't good. You aren't his only lover. He might go all the way to New York to see you but after your date is over he probably has another girlfriend to meet in New Jersey and Connecticut before going to Germany  to meet his new "friend". He won't tell you everything about himself and will be a bit secretive and mysterious. He only plays boyfriend while you're in town or when you contact him worrying about when he will come back to see you.

9. The Salary Sleaze

This guy uses his work as an excuse for only having 90 minutes at a love hotel with you once a week. He might be living a double life with am entire family at home and is only using you for cheap and easy convenient sex after work. He claims to be too tired and too busy to do anything else with you.

10. The Story Teller

This man has a story for everything. He claims to have left his phone at home or forgot his key at the gym so he won't be able to see you tonight. He isn't hungry because he is fasting or he went out for dinner with a client. While his stories seem to make sense at first that become a constant thing and eventually start to not make sense anymore. How could he have met his clients without his cellphone or wallet? You'll notice that this guy has a long story for anything you ask about or accuse him of.

11. The Fantasy Man

This guy has a cosplay fetish or wants to try something even kinkier. He dreams of having sex with his favorite anime or video game characters and is too shy to ask his real girlfriend or wife to experiment with him. This man might be fun to date but he isn't serious about dating you and will withhold information about himself since he has no interest in settling down and committing to you. Why stop with just one girl when he can have sex with other girls with better cosplay skills?

12. The Struggle Lover

This guy has no money and doesn't have his personal life together. He's scrapping for change and using coupons on your dates. You wonder "how are we supposed to get married if he can't even afford a date at a family restaurant?". He expects you to work in the future and for you to be a housewife. He expects you to do things that he'd never ask a Japanese woman and assumes that since you're a foreigner (unlike a Japanese woman) you won't mind. While he might really love you he can be a bit sexist and rude and his priorities aren't right. Building a future with him more than likely means living paycheck to paycheck.

13. The Sex Masseur

This guy offers free massages he has an obsession with touching women. He might have his own shop or practices at home. His goal is simple. He just wants to make you feel good for free. He wants to rub, lick and oil you up, which sounds like a dream (and might feel like one too) but you should wonder how many women he has done this to and be concerned about possibly being filmed or photographed naked without your knowledge or consent. You can end up on a pornographic site and not even know it. While his massages might sound appealing to you they're risky. You have no idea how many girls he has put his hands on and he or his surfaces can be infected with just about anything. This isn't someone that is going to only have hands for you.

14. The Host Guy

This guy looks like an anime character in real life. He is sexy and mysterious. He cares more about his look than you do! He knows exactly what to say or do and when to execute. His job is based around flirting with and even having sex with women so he knows how to take charge and keep the conversation going. He has no shame in holding hands or kissing you in public which might seem great until you consider the fact that this dude is having the exact same date that he has with you in approximately 2 hours. He is a cheater, a liar and just looking for free and easy sex as well as a release from his normal work.

15. The Shy Guy

This guy seems like the nerd straight from out of a manga that has a crush on the main character. This dude is super socially awkward. He acts strange and seems to be on the verge of having a heart attack over small gestures like making eye contact with you or  being touched by you. While his shy behavior can be cute it can also come off as creepy and be a total turn-off.

16. The Bachelor

This guys seems perfect at first. He's financially stable, works a good job, had a college education and he is single. You ask yourself "how can a man so handsome and well off not have children or a divorce record?". You'll late discover that this guy sees you as his child and I don't mean that in a sexual way but rather an unbalanced way. This man is stuck in his ways and treats you like a child. He is not open to change or being told what to do and has an old-fashioned and rather sexist mindset. It is difficult to reason or compromise with this man. It's either his way or the highway. This guy can be controlling and abusive.

17. The Serial Cheater

No matter how good of a girlfriend you are, even if you were to get married this man simply can't stop cheating on you. It doesn't matter how good your blow jobs are, how often you have sex, or how much personal space you give him he simply won't stop because he has an addiction and he knows that you will forgive him.

18. The Wannabe Foreigner

This guy might try to be a black or a white guy. He might try to be a rapper, a skater, or a rock star. These are the Japanese guys that wear dreadlocks and braids, dye their hair blonde, and try their best to act and look like stereotypical westerners. They tend to be cheaters and liars and make awful partners as they are too busy trying to be someone other than themselves and often aim to show off and please other people like their friends or followers. His obsession with being a stereotype can be flattering but is also off-putting and not someone that you'd want to start a family with.

19.  The Horny Virgin

Similar to the"shy guy" he is very open about his love and want for sex. He is either really bad or lacks sexual experience. His kisses are sloppy and slobbery and he doesn't seem to be capable of changing positions. He fucks like he's never had sex in his life and if you unfortunately make the mistake of sleeping with him you'll later wish that you can press an undo button and erase or forget about this experience. This is a body that you don't want to count!  

20.  The Gaijin Hunter

The goal for these guys are simple. Find a hot foreigner that speaks English. Their goals is just to have an ideal human being (preferably someone who is not Asian at all or at least not Japanese). Any girl will do! They will insist on being more compatible with white women or foreigners in general. These are the guys that studied abroad for a year and become a vegan Catholic overnight. They want to show their friends that they can speak English and pull a blue eyed blonde girl. Their interest and love isn't for you but for your race and language. They want someone that they can practice English with and sleep with free of charge.

Thank you for reading! If you have any advice that you would like to share or if you have experienced dating a guy like this in Japan then please feel free to share your experience and please leave a comment below!

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STOP Bashing Online Dating in Japan | Dating Advice for Foreign Women in Japan

Living in Japan as a foreigner comes with tons of challenges from cultural differences and language barriers to strange food combinations and unhealthy work practices, but one of the most difficult things that foreign women deal with is deciding whether they want to go back to their home country to find a partner or if they should change their plans for having a family and accept being single for life. While there are some challenges and difficulties with dating in general, I can assure you that Japanese people aren't so different to the point that it is impossible to fall in love with and build a genuinely good relationship, marriage and family together. I can guarantee you that getting married and starting a family here in Japan is a goal of yours that you most certainly do not have to leave Japan in order to obtain this.

You can watch the YouTube video for this blog post here... 

STOP Bashing Online Dating in Japan

Your Beauty is Yours

Let's face it online dating is scary. You are putting yourself out there for the public to judge you. You are opening up to total strangers and sharing your likes and dislikes, your name and even personal photographs of yourself. As a minority, a tall woman, an overweight woman, or someone that isn't  "good looking" it can make you feel as though you need to have a warning label in your profile ( i.e "CAUTION 6'4 260 LBS. DARK SKIN CHICK HERE") but, there is no need to do such a thing. Beauty is subjective but confidence is not. Everyone can agree that someone who is confident is naturally more appealing both physically and mentally. No one wants to date someone who is always crying about their looks and that seems paranoid about being seen.

Stop comparing yourself to Japanese women! While different cultures have different beauty standards you need to understand that you aren't Japanese and thus you won't be treated like it, and in this case that is not a bad thing! No matter how cute you might look in your Lolita dress and no matter how pale your skin might be Japanese people are not blind. They can see that you are not one of them. They can see all of your flaws. They can see that you are bigger than most of the people around you and that your nose sticks out 3 inches from your face and despite all of this they don't really care. Traits that you have which might be seen as flaws for a Japanese woman won't be seen as a flaw on you. There are millions of Japanese women who are just as tall, big, and just as "weird" as you are and they are happily married to a loving husband. 

You want your partner to fall in love with YOU and not your looks. Beauty fades. When you take out your extensions, pull off that wig, take off your lashes, take off your shape-wear, wash the heat damage and products from your hair, when your roots start showing, once you take off your contacts, and wipe off all of your makeup he will see the real you. He will still love you just as much if not even more than he loves you when you're all dressed up.

Men just like women have their own taste. Each man has his own preference when it comes to dating women. Some men aren't willing to date tall or plus sized women and others are. Some men only want to date within their own race some are open to dating women of any race or nationality. Just because some guys don't like your appearance doesn't mean that no one will. The man that you are dating is just as concerned about his looks. He is wondering if he is "big enough", tall enough, makes enough money, can hold the conversation, make you laugh, if he is dressed nice enough, and if his English is good enough to keep you. 

There's No Prize for Meeting Your Boyfriend Offline

There is no prize for saying that you met your boyfriend at the grocery store. Nobody cares about how you met your boyfriend or husband. It is a personal and intimate question that you can choose to answer or not. Most people have used online dating at some point whether they are honest about their history of using these apps or the current existence of them many of the people whom you fear might judge you for "resorting" to using such an app are being hypocritical. Ask yourself this. Will you care 20 years from now how you met your husband? Will these people who you fear might tease you or look down upon you be willing to pay for your fertility treatments should you require it down the line? Are you getting married to your friends and family, or is it to the man you met online? Why allow people to control who can make you happy and how? A lot of the people you hear bragging about how they met the man of their dreams after deleting Tinder found their guy another social app so what's the difference?

Your Fears Are Valid

I used to be one of those people who was afraid of meeting some crazy stalker who'd be an ax murderer. I was afraid of seeing someone on a dating app that I already knew in real life like my brother, an uncle, or a family friend. I felt ashamed to be seen online on any sites other than Instagram, Twitter, and Facebook because society has labeled online dating as something that is made for the elderly, desperate, crazy, and of course the sleazy people of the world. As I got a little older I quickly realized how stupid my thoughts were. While it is possible to meet someone that is not in their right mind, is obsessive, or that intends to harm you, it is no more likely or risky than going out on a date with the cutie from aisle 5 at the grocery store. Anyone who sees my online dating profile had to have had an online dating profile themselves so how can they judge me when they were also on the app as well? The same people I am afraid of seeing online are also afraid of seeing me their sister, niece, and family friend on that app too! Is it worth it to be lonely because I have limited options to meet good quality men in real life yet refuse to expand my options by giving online dating a shot? It is totally normal to feel shy and self-conscious when you are on a date.

Don't Limit Yourself

There are way more possibilities and opportunities online than in person. Dating online allows you to meet people that you'd otherwise have never crossed paths with. Just because you downloaded OK Cupid doesn't mean that you can't date the guy from the library or the hot guy you matched with on Tinder. It is also easier to talk to a variety people at once. While I am not encouraging you to cheat on your partner I do think that it is a good idea to continue to date multiple people at the same time to keep you from becoming clingy too fast and to ensure that you are making the right choice and not just being desperate and throwing yourself at the first man that sends you a message for a sushi date. You can choose to date people that live within a few miles from your home or work or someone that lives across the country. Love can be found anywhere in the world. You don't have to marry or date someone that lives within 10 minutes of your current address and you also don't have to fly 3 hours across the country to find love either.

Be Open Minded

Just as looks aren't everything to the man that you are dating it also shouldn't be everything to you. Maybe you normally only like men that are over 6 feet but would you rather have a tall boyfriend or a boyfriend that likes to hold your hand in public and cuddle with you at night? There is more to a relationship than eye candy. When you fall in love with someone for the right reasons you won' care about him being over weight or short. You won't care about his hair thinning out or about him not being a doctor or a lawyer. Try dating different people. Give men a chance. Women often spend a lot of time getting played and being single because they chase after for the wrong reason. There are a lot of tall and muscular jerks. There are a lot of rich cheaters. Think about what is more important to you. Do you want a man that looks perfect to the world or do you want a man that treats you perfectly?

Online Dating Goes Offline

One of the most misunderstood things about online dating is that people think it stays online. Sure, you initially found the person online and would have probably NEVER in a million years ran across each　other but most people quickly make plans to meet in person after exchanging a few basic messages. Your date wants to see you just as badly as you want to see them. You won't spend the entirety of your relationship making video calls and sending text messages. You will also go on dates, go on vacations, have sex, try out new cafes and restaurants, watch movies, cuddle, kiss, cook together, go for walks at the park, and play games together. Anything that you'd do with a guy you met by chance or through a friend you can also do with the guy that you met online.

You're in Total Control

You can cancel dates or make new ones. You can decide how long you want to meet for. You can choose whether you want top share your last name or tell them where you work or not. You can decide how quickly you want to move with you relationship. You can decide if you want to have sex after the third date or after marriage. You can decide whether you want to meet at a family restaurant, a cafe or a public park. You don't have to move any faster or slower in your relationship than someone who met their man in person.

No Surprises Unless You Want Them

You don't have to make it a semi-blind date. You can see your date and get to know them before going out for dinner or drinks. There is no rush when dating someone that you met online. You can ask them as many questions as you want to and you can exchange photos and video chat with them as many times as you'd like to BEFORE ever meeting them in person or spending a single cent to see or date them. It is up to you whether you want to know their height and weight or if you want to see if they're balding prematurely etc.. You can ask personal questions about their work, family, friends, pets or anything else that you'd like to know before becoming attached. 

It's as Discreet or Public as You Make It

Your relationship is private until you decide to make it public. Even after you start seeing each other regularly no one will know about your date or relationship until you decide to tell your fiends and family and share photos and videos of what you have done together. It is entirely up to you whether or not you want to tell people how you met your partner.　You don't have to share every 

Your Family & Friends Will Accept You & Your Partner

Your true friends and family will happy for you! They will be proud of you. They want to see that you are enjoying you life and that you are being taken care of. Your friends and family want you to have a companion to share your life with. They won't look down on you or treat you partner funny simply because you didn't bump into each other while reaching for the same bag of grapes at Walmart. 

Break Ups Happen Offline Too

There is no shame in going through a breakup whether it be a good or bad breakup both are normal. Just as you are a human being with thoughts and feelings so is your partner. Unfortunately not everyone we meet turns out to be as good of a match as we thought they were. It is okay to break up with someone who is bad for us and it is okay to be let go of by someone who doesn't see themselves being with us long-term for the right reason. You can always try again! It doesn't have to be with that guy necessarily but just because a relationship comes to an end doesn't mean that it is the end for you. There are thousands if not millions of other men waiting to meet you.

Double Standards Much

People tend to judge online relationships more harshly. When things don't end well people swear that they'll never use another dating app as though the same bad guys on these apps don't exist in real life too. I have never heard someone say that they're done dating after meeting 20 players through mutual friends but people will judge the entire world of online dating after 3 dates that didn't go as planned. Don't give up on online dating so easily! Life is full of chances to be taken and lessons to be learned. You don't have to stop dating just because of a few bad guys. Don't give people who don't love and care about you dictatorship over your love life and happiness. Cheaters exist in real life too and so do liars. Bad men aren't exclusive to dating apps.

The Waiting Game

Dating requires patience. You have to be willing to fill out a lengthy profile and answer the same questions over and over again. You will get tired of telling people what your hometown is and explaining to people that chopsticks aren't that hard to use and debunking the myth the Japanese is so hard to speak and that sushi is impossible for a foreigner to eat. You will have to wait to make matches and to get replies. It will sometimes feel as though there is no one else out there for you. You will feel rushed. You will feel like time is going by so fast and yet here you are still single but once you do find someone who is genuine and that makes you happy it will all be worth it.

Time Sensitive

While not everyone envisions becoming a mother it is a dream for most women to not only become a wife but to become a mother. The longer you wait to find a husband the harder it will be to conceive naturally as you age. You can be lucky and have a smooth pregnancy over 35 or you may have the money to go through fertility treatments but why risk your child having health issues or risk having a complicated pregnancy? Why spend thousands of dollars on medical treatments that you wouldn't have needed had you ignored the people who told you that online dating was for losers and sinners? While you can be blessed with a baby in the future it is also very possible that even with the most expensive treatments and best doctors that you cannot give birth to your own child due to your declining fertility. Don't you want to be able to watch your children grown up and to see your grand kids or possibly great grandchildren?  If having a family is important to you and you know that you want to have 5 kids then don't delay making an effort to search for a partner.

It's Never Too Late

Whether you are new to online dating or have dated online in the past but have given up on it it is never too late to change your mind and give it a shot. You don't have to pay for an expensive subscription or date every guy that sends you a message but you can use these apps at your own pace during your own spare time. It is okay to take a break. It is okay to try dating for the first time. You are NEVER too old to get married or t have a family. You are never too old to continue to grow your family. Sure things could have been easier for you had you signed up at 25 instead of 45 but you still have so many years ahead of you in life. Everyone deserves love and happiness regardless of how they look or how good or bad of a person society has deemed them to be. There is no shame in seeking help to conceive from a fertility clinic. There is nothing wrong with having children later in life. Not everything goes like we planned for it to. Becoming a mom over 35 is just as beautiful as becoming a mother at 25. Your worth as a woman and as a wife is not tied to being a mother. Your baby will love you regardless of your age!

This is Your Life

One of the worse feelings in life is regret. Everyone has regrets. Whether it be regretting something that we did or didn't say or do it such a painful feeling. It haunts you seemingly everyday. Don't let your life pass you by and regret not having attempted to find the love of your life. You can't get back time and the longer you wait to look for a partner the less options you will have to choose from. Take risks and take chances! Love is worth it.

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20 Signs That a Japanese Man is Serious About You

 Being in both an interracial and international relationship can be extremely difficult. You have to deal with a language barrier and 2 cultural barriers. There is an endless amount of differences and problems that can arise due to a lack of cultural understanding. Japanese men can seem emotionless and mysterious to foreign women most of the time. Their "yes" can mean "no" and even when given the opportunity to be honest, it will normally be met with lies as their goal is to avoid causing an unwanted confrontation or making you feel sad or angry. Some guys are just jerks and others are "shy-jerks". 

  It can be very difficult to figure them out and tell what they are thinking. A date or a relationship that went horrible can lead to 20+ more before it finally fizzles out and you get ghosted for good. After having lived in Japan for multiple years I started to notice a pattern. There are some things that Japanese men instinctively do and don't do because of cultural differences when they really love you and there are other things that they do and don't do if they are just looking for quick, fun and easy sex.

As always, there is no one-size-fits-all when it comes to relationships. Japanese men are still men and they are each individuals. However we can safely say that like most cultures their are some things that generally apply to all men within them. Here's a List of 20 (21) things that you can expect your man to do if he is not a player but is serious and committed to you.

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1.) He Makes Plans to See You in Advance

He makes elaborate plans to see you in advance. He doesn't wait until the last minute to schedule a date with you. He puts actual thought and effort into what he plans to do and where you will eat and drink. He wants to make sure that you will be free and have enough time to stay out with him.

2.) He Tries to Physically Impress You

He wants to look good for you on your dates by dressing nicely and showing you that he is husband material and can take care of you. Not only does this guy make elaborate plans for the two of you, but he chooses an expensive restaurant that serves your favorite food, if you stay at a love hotel he chooses an expensive suite, and because he knows how much you like art he purchases tickets for the nicest one he can find.

3.) He Wants to Meet You During The Daytime 

He wants to go to new places that are only open during the daytime when he has time off form work on the weekends. He wants to spend the entire day with you. He enjoys being with you.

4.) He Doesn't Always Want to Have Sex During or After Your Date

He doesn't expect to have sex with you just because you are on a dinner date. Even if you spend the night and at his place he makes no sexual advances and simply wants to talk, watch movies, play games, cuddle, make you smile and laugh. It's not that he doesn't love you or doesn't enjoy having sex with you, but he sees you as more than just an easy girl to have free sex with rather as his true partner.

5.) He Brags About You And Calls You His Girlfriend in Public 

He makes it clear to everyone that he has a girlfriend. He openly refers to you as being his lover both to his friends and family as well as to total strangers.

6.) He Makes Plans for You To Meet His Family

Even when you're not together you are always on his mind. He wants the most important people in his life like his family members to see the beautiful girl that has been making him so happy. If he really loves you he wants his family to love you just as much and for them to accept you as his potential future wife.

7.) He Worries About Your Public Image

He doesn't want people to think ill of you. He wants you to dress conservatively and the thought of you wearing a crop top, v-neck, or a mini-skirt/mini-dress makes him uncomfortable enough to suggest that you change your clothes. He thinks that you look

8.) He Worries About The Language Barrier

He secretly or privately studies English. He is constantly apologizing for his lack of English skills (even if he is fluent) because he loves you and wants to be understood and accepted by you so he judges himself a bit harshly when it comes to his language ability. Even if you can speak Japanese he wants to study English more now than ever so that he can speak to his girlfriend in her mother tongue. Don't be surprised if you find a few English books lying around his house or stuffed away in his backpack during your date.

9.) He Talks About Your Future Together as a Couple

He is already making plans or speaks about the possibility of them as though he knows it will happen with certainty. HE may has slipped hints about plans for the summer or for your future home and family.

10.) He Replies Fast 

He is excited to hear from you and wants to get back to you as soon as possible. He always gets back to you within a reasonable amount of time. Even is he is a salaryman he replies within a reasonable amount of time.

11.) He Buys You Gifts Just Because

This guy doesn't just buy you lingerie fro White Day or a cake for your birthday but he thinks about you when he is alone and wants to make you look and feel good. He knows that you love red and he sees how worn out your old bag is so he buys you a nice handbag. He knows that you love Sailor Moon so he gets a key-chain with your favorite character on it. He isn't stingy when he shops for you and will buy both cheap and expensive things for you every so often.

12.) He Contacts You Throughout The Week

He doesn't wait for you to ask him for a date or for you to send him a simple greeting by text. He initiates conversations and will try his best to keep the conversation going.

13. He is Worried About Your Perception of Him

He is worried about wearing something that you don't like or looking dirty or feminine to you. If you express to him that you don't like that strange hat that he got at the flee market, or tat strong cologne that wreaks of "old man" then he won't wear it again.

14. He Tries to Make You Feel At Home

He will try to be a gentleman and more romantic because he knows that is what you'd expect from a man in your culture. He will find food that you are used to eating etc. to make you feel at home. He may feel embarrassed or shy about holding hands, hugging, or kissing you in public but he will make an exception for you when appropriate.

15. He Voluntarily Helps You Get Settled in Japan

He cares about you and wants you to enjoy your stay in Japan. He tries his best to help you set up things in your name and to pay bills. He acts as a free translator for you. If you need help with arranging deliveries or finding something at the store he is there to make suggestions. He offers to handle tricky phone calls and will assist you at the hospital or find the best one for you to go to when needed.

16. He Wants to Live Together 

He loves and trusts you so much that he wants to stay with you. He can't get enough of you and enjoys being together. He makes plans for the two of you to get a place that you can share. He suggests this on his own without you asking or begging him to do so.

17. He Remembers The Little Things About You

Even if he is normally a rather forgetful person, he makes an effort to remember the little things that you tell him. He knows when your cat's birthday is and that your sisters favorite color is green. If you told him that your favorite nail polish color is coral he won't forget these things. 

18.  He is Not Embarrassed/Ashamed to be Seen Together in Public With You

He doesn't try to hide you from the public. He wants you to go to events with him. He wants to be seen with you because he is proud of you. He doesn't feel embarrassed if you act like you are his girlfriend in public because he knows that you truly are and he wants everyone else to watch in envy.

19.  He Feels Embarrassed if You Pay for The Date or Try to Split The Bill

This guy doesn't pretend to have left his wallet at home. He comes prepared  for the date. In his culture it is expected that the man should pay for the entirety of the date. Special occasions like when he is sick, it's his birthday, he's injured, or if he had a bad day are appropriate for you to step in and pay but if he is serious about you the thought of you trying to cover the date or pay for half of it makes him not feel masculine and rather embarrassed.

20. He is Overprotective and Easily Becomes Jealous

He worries about you lifting heavy things and getting sick. He tries to protect you from traffic and creepy men. He might express feeling jealous or uncomfortable with you meeting with male friends or students as he worries that it might be a date.

21. He Wants to Take Pictures of You Together as a Couple and of You Alone

He wants to have pictures to show his family and friends and not just something that is sexually suggestive that can also be used as blackmail potentiality. He wants to take a cute picture of you standing next to the flowers in your cute maxi dress at the park and another picture of the two of you looking over the city. He wants to remember the real you when he looks at his phone and not just lust over your body when he feels horny and wants to masturbate.

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The Real Reason Why Asian Men DON'T Like Black Women

As a young black woman living in Japan I was naturally curious about how people felt about me and was quickly met with disappointment to see, hear, and read about how poor and negative the image of black people was all throughout Asia. I wanted to know why people who had such little experience with black people had feelings and views that were on average more negative than those of white Americans despite having even less experience with dating working with or interacting with black people.
After having lived, worked studied, and dated in Japan for a few years and having met hundreds if not thousands of Asians from various countries I didn't find the rumors about Asian  men disliking black women to be true because my experience had been so positive. I am showered with compliments and I can't go a day without being hit on or approached by a man. I am constantly being stared at and causing men to turn their heads. I am told that I am beautiful charming, cute, and even "sexy" by interviewers, management, staff and waiters at various retailers and schools. I am constantly told that I look like Rihanna. I feel like a celebrity here in Japan but I am also aware that not every black woman has had the same "wonderful" experience that I have had both online and in person.
 I have learned that it wasn't simply that Asian men didn't like black women as a whole but rather they had never seen black women as individuals. Asking an Asian man if they would like to date or marry a black woman as we see in street interviews on YouTube is the equivalent to asking a woman if she'd date or marry a homeless man. The first image that comes to our mind is a dirty wrinkly bearded old man that probably has a drug addiction and that obviously isn't working, but if you were to show us a picture of a man that looked like Tank, Usher, Chris Brown, MGK, etc. then most of us would reconsider.  



Every man is different and there is no one-size-fits-all the it comes to likes and dislikes. What one person finds as attractive another will say as ugly. However there is no denying the fact that black women are the least popular women in the dating pool for every race and Asian men regardless of their country of origin are no exception. Most (keyword being most as in not all) Asian men are not attracted to black women for a variety of reasons. Some of those reasons are shallow and based off of your complexion and features and others are based off of pure ignorance and rumors about diseases, bad manners and behavior and a lack femininity from black women. When people think of black women they do not picture Beyonce, Rhianna, or Lupita. instead they picture a morbidly obese, baldheaded, ghetto, ratchet, loud, masculine woman that lacks manners. They think of STD's, poverty, and a lack of formal education. They picture a woman with features that are generally perceived as unattractive and dirty. This is a mixture of both what they have seen on TV as well as from the black people that they have seen and interacted with that are both touring and living in Asia. I myself as a black woman can honestly say that I can count the attractive black men and women that I have seen here in Japan. Most of the people here are not cute and are working sketchy jobs. They haven't assimilated and seem to have no interest in doing so. When Japanese people think of black people the image in their mind isn't something sexy or appealing just like when the average black person that is NOT interested in Asians or their media and entertainment thinks of an Asian man they envision a short, nerdy, feminine man with a small dick. It honestly goes both ways. Because of this if you ask your average Asian man on the street if they'd date or marry a black woman they'd obviously say no because 90% of what they have seen is NOT positive. This is not to say that they really don't like black women they just haven't seen one that they did.

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Why Asian Men DON'T Like Black Women

1.) They've Been Brainwashed by The Media

Unfortunately when it comes to being beautiful the only image that Asian men have been given is that of a white woman or an Asian woman that appears to be white (mixed race) in some sort of way. The black people that are shown in media aren't used to represent beauty but rather athleticism and for comic relief. Whether they are showing their ignorance of the language and culture or acting as a clown for a children's show, they are almost never seen as good for anything besides a good laugh.

2.) They Haven't Seen a Black Woman That They've Found Attractive

Most of the black women that Asian men have been exposed to  or that they have interacted with are simply unattractive. Whether it be your hairstyle your choice of fashion, or your features you just aren't what they're looking for. Most people think that they are not attractive in Asia simply because their skin is dark when really it goes so much deeper than just that. Not all black people look alike. Our lips noses eyes, hair and complexions vary significantly from person to person. While every man has his own preference and taste we can all be honest and agree that most men in the world especially within Asia don't find most black features as well as being obesity and dark pigmentation's to be attractive.
The average black person also hasn't seen an Asian man that they have found to be attractive. We also picture the same stereotypical image of an show scrawny, nerdy, racist Asian man with a small dick just like they picture a black woman with big mouth, big nose, tons of weave or some sort of crazy hairstyle, a nasty attitude, and a lack of femininity.

3.) They Think That You're Infected

A lot of people believe that all or most black people have an STD of sometime including HIV or AIDS. This is especially true if you are not African-American (Canadian British Australian) but rather you are from an African country.

4.) They Think That You're Poor

Most peoples image of black people is some poor starving kid in Africa. They think that Africa is just a single country and everyone in it is struggling to make it another day. While it is pretty standard that families/households are financial supported/ran by the men/husband the thought of marrying or dating someone that is poor isn't appealing. Dark skin has been associated with poverty in Asia just like tan are associated with wealth in the western world.

5.) They Believe That You're Uneducated

When Asians think of black women they imagine someone that is loud, lacks manners, isn't polite, and that is rather ignorant. When they think of someone smart and intelligent they simply don't picture a black person thanks to their images being in the media for committing various crimes and seeing them work sketchy jobs on the streets.

6.) They Don't Like Black Skin

Everyone has their own preferences and just like you "have a thing " for Asian men they might "have a thing for white women". Not everyone finds dark skin to be attractive and it is not necessarily because of racism/prejudice. Most people find red hair to be unattractive and those with naturally red hair will usually spend their entire lives dying it blond. It is simply a trait that is viewed negatively. It is not fair by any means but again everyone has a different idea of what is beautiful and what is not.
Some men don't like women with dark complexions at all others are willing to date someone with a pale-brown complexion but would never date anyone darker than that. Colorist is a thing here but so are personal preferences.

7.) They Don't Feel Comfortable Dating Outside of Their Nationality

While this isn't limited to just black women, some men strictly only want to date a woman from their own culture as there won't be a language barrier or a clash of cultures which can easily cause fights and arguments. A lot of men also want to make their parents happy by marrying someone that is the same race and nationality as themselves. Some men are also afraid that they are too small whether it be their physical height or genitalia they fear that they cannot please a foreign women.

As always keep in mind that every man has his own thoughts on this topic. A man that has been internationalized meaning that he has traveled or studied abroad has foreign friends worked in a company for or with foreigners, or that speaks a second language such as English will naturally be more open minded and willing to date or marry outside of his race.

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Ghosting in Japan | Why Japanese People Like to Ghost

If you have been living in Japan for any length of time or if you have spent a great amount of time in search of penpals, long distance relationships, or language exchange partners then you have probably heard countless excuses from your Japanese friends and dates from claiming to be studying for their finals and working overtime to their sick mother needing 24/7 support. While it is possible that there really is a lot of stuff going on in their life at the moment its extremely unlikely that they can't text or call you before work, during their lunch break or after work/school. Let's also not forget that most people have their weekends off and most Japanese people endlessly scroll their phones during their lunch break and commute to and from work. If you suspect that you're being ghosted then you're probably right. Trust your gut and try your best to move on. 

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Ghosting in Japan

So what is "ghosting"? Ghosting is the act of someone who was once seemingly very close to you (usually in a romantic way) suddenly disappearing or fading away overtime.

Japanese people choose to ghost for a variety of reasons but the most common excuses are to avoid having a heartbreaking conversation with someone that they once loved and to avoid having feelings of guilt by coming clean and explaining what their real intentions were from the start.

The most important thing that you have to understand is that begging for the other person to stay or to tell you why is not going to make you feel any better. It is very much indeed possible that it was never your fault in the first place and that there is absolutely nothing that you could have done differently to keep the inevitable from happening, that is them leaving you at some point with or without notice and closure.

In Japan being direct is extremely rude. Instead of simply telling you what you did wrong or what they don’t like or about you your friends and partners find it easier to either suddenly disappear or to slowly fade overtime and become less and less available until you get the hint. The goal is to have YOU walk away and move on so that they don’t have to be deliverers of bad news. They want all of the pressure taken off of themselves.  Don’t be fooled! Just because your so called friend or boyfriend replies to your texts and calls every so often doesn’t mean that you’re not being ghosted they;re probably just using the “slow method” that I talked about. I have personally experienced both.

Eventually you’ll become a pro and will be able to easily tell that things aren't working out ad you’ll probably have the honour of doing the ghosting yourself.

If your friend or boyfriend/girlfriend has suddenly stopped talking to you all together or as much h and claims that they're busy with family work or school then take the hint and stop being stupid and demanding closure. You’re only making a fool out of yourself! be an adult and gather the little bit of pride that you do have and simply walk away. 

It’s an annoying cultural difference and while it may seem childish and rude to not give someone an explanation at least the “ghoster” means well and is simply trying to protect your feelings by not causing you to get really sad or angry and argue,fight, or threaten to make plans to commit suicide all of a sudden. 

As I’ve gotten older I simply stopped getting so attached to people. I talk to people as acquaintances and I’m not quick to take off my clothes or make out with the first guy that calls me cute and spends more than $100 on a date. I also learned to stop replying so fast and desperately to every text message and phone call. I stopped making myself so available. 

If you suspect that you're being ghosted then get a job, study Japanese. play some video games, read a book, learn how to cook a new meal, paint, start a sketch book,make some new friends, take some pictures and have fun editing them get your mind off of trying to force everyone to love you or to be your friend. You need a personal life outside of your partner or so called friend. Nobody likes a clingy person! Its overwhelming, annoying and bothersome. 

You have to distract yourself! reevaluate your relationship. Maybe you scared them away by being clingy, oversharing, or being obnoxious. Maybe you opened up too fast in more ways than one. Learn how to take things slowly and always keep your options open. You need a social life of your own. 

Also keep in mind that your clinginess and desperation will attract people who intend to harm and use you. They can see how vulnerable and easy that you are. Your desperation for love and acceptance and your fetish makes you a target for people to use you for sex, gifts, food, money, status, and arm-candy.

If you have ever been ghosted in Japan then don't feel bad! You're not alone. Most people here have been ghosted more than once whether they're Japanese or a foreigner. As a foreigner you're a lot to handle! Your personality, your wants,your thought process and expectations are all very different from those of a Japanese persons so just as you are having a hard time with being ghosted your former lover or friend may have also found it difficult to please you or to breathe around you and probably felt as though you were smothering them or scarring them with your aggressively clingy demanding and direct behavior.

If you are moving too fast in your relationship or friendship then you are probably missing telltale signs that your partner is not that interested. Remember that at the end of the day Japanese people are still human! They can lie to you just like anyone else can to get in your pants and experiment with you or to use you as a date for an event. being ghosted is extremely hurtful especially if you were really in love with this person or if you had what appeared to have been the perfect friendship but it is better to find out now rather than later so that you can stop wasting all of your love, time and money on someone who clearly doesn't feel so positively about you. I know that it may seem like its the end of the world but it's not. You will eventually move on just as easily as they did and you will also find someone who is genuine and true to you that really loves and cares about you. A real love or friendship that you will never have to question.

Take this time being single or "lonely" to work on yourself. After being ghosted I finally started taking Japanese seriously and began teaching myself how to read and write. I started exercising and managed to lose about 30 lbs. in just a few months. Before I knew it I had new friends and finally a REAL relationship that made it all worth it. I hope that you too can find happiness in all of your relationships as well. Take your time and let things happen naturally. You don't have to be in a relationship and you don't need friends. They're all wants. Always choose quality people over quantity. Never let your loneliness turn into desperation. When we become desperate and clingy we allow ourselves to be abused and taken advantage of. You deserve good things and good people in your life. When you do finally meet that special someone you'll just know it and no matter what you say or do they'll never get tired of you. they will appreciate all of your efforts and love you just the way that you are. You won't have to prove yourself to anyone anymore and you can relax knowing that they aren't going anywhere.

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